So 23 years ago today my grandfather (that'd be my dad's dad) upset a tractor and passed away in a thistle patch. Sunday is 23 years since my brother passed away from SIDS at the ripe old age of 6 weeks. August isn't a good month.

Nor is it for me, putting my dog down today and my mother died on the 15th (tomorrow). My ex's son was born on the 28th, and I still miss him dearly. So August is a bitchj

My gimpaversary was the 7th, some family friends just lost their daughter yesterday, and my sister and like 5 or my friends have birthdays in august . . . meh, I'll try to think about the good, not the bad, but thas easier said than done most times

Well I'm kinda bias towards August........I get this really tasty desert.......this year it may be a "twice baked" cake though, once in the oven & a 2nd time by all the candles.

But I do feel for both of you & your losses.