QUOTE (breeze @ Sep 8 2009, 09:49 AM)

hello! i have a few questions about my mother's recent injury!
Hey there, I'm L4/L5 cauda equina syndrome that I let go for far too long before seeking out the help of the emergency room. I'm 10 months post, and this is what I've learned so far:
-Unless you're on a lot of meds that constipate you, try to slowly wean yourself off the stool softener, and more towards fiberous foods, timed bowel evac, et cetera. I have the stool softeners and so forth if I get plugged up, or if I change/start meds, but I prefer trying to stick with the healthy diet, because I just plain feel better!
-The fact she's going on the walker one month afterward means awesome progress! Keep encouraging her (gently) that she's doing awesome.
-What I do when I toilet (I can sometimes feel 'something', most often not) is sit on the potty at determined times in the day, and try to go - turn on the faucet slightly, and think about rushing waterfalls and the 'relief' you felt before the injury. If it doesn't work after a few minutes, then go for the intermittent cath. I don't dare push in on my stomach, for fear of hurting my kidneys. I have an issue that my bladder won't release properly - I still leak, but I generally don't empty all the way. Also, maxi-pads work great if you're a leaker. I've gotten away from diapers for the most part, but I still wear maxi-pads for little accidents. Again, once you train your body, this get so much easier.
-I stopped doing PT/OT about 60 days after I left rehab, due to evil insurance reasons. However - we knew this in advance, so we prepared by me learning how to administer my own PT. For instance - I'll spend about 20 minutes in the morning doing my adapted ballet stretches. In the afternoon (or evening, if it's warm), I'll do my own PT. One example is getting an old pizza pan and put it under my foot, loop a jump rope around the arch. I will pull my leg flat along the bed, so it's as perpendicular to my core as possible, and then try to pull the leg back down. It doesn't ever go far, but the pizza pan helps my leg slide along the bed. Ask for fliers of exercises she can do, and get creative when doing them. Also, it doesn't hurt to have cute clothes, good music, or tasty water to make it more enticing to do it. I will do PT for about an hour or so per day. As for OT, I stopped that shortly out of rehab, because I looked at is as using my house will force me to become more independent. Do request that an OT person come by her house shortly before she's released to give ideas on adapting, moving around the house, etc.
-As for the mattress, I have an exceptionally firm mattress that I put a memory foam topper on top of. Again, check with an OT to confirm that this is necessary.
-From my understanding, lower level injuries have their own set of issues - one may be pain. Try to make sure that this is controlled as well as possible throughout her recovery; depression and apathy can set in much quicker with pain as a constant.
I was the only person in the hospital with an SCI-ish injury, (as is the case with CES) where this particular hospital specialized in stroke care. While she's in the hospital/rehab, have her converse with the stroke folks as well - I really gathered strength from these folks, and it really helped keep things in perspective for me. Try to see if there is an SCI support group of some sort in her area, or have her come online and check us out! Just being able to read experiences has really helped me out, along with finding the few folks that have the same/similar injury as I do. Also, know that my advice is my own - not from the doctor. There is so much she'll find out.
When I have a particularly crappy day, I just sing the Dori song from Finding Nemo - "Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!"