Hi Jennifer, your husband is very lucky to be able to walk which he already knows but sometimes its so very hard to keep on fighting to keep walking, cos thats how it feels at times, as walkers we know that we HAVE to keep on doing it otherwise we'll end up like the majority, in a chair.
How it feels to walk, it's like gravity is a lot stronger than how it used to be.
Jennifer, by the sounds of it, your husband is a bit worse than what I am, you mentioned a brace? does he need one or two all or some of the time?
I have to remember HOW to walk all of the time, to remember to move my hips (ahhhh, to have the hip wiggle I used to have when men looked, sigh), to bend my knees, to lift my feet, to swing my arms, try and not lean forward all of the time cos I'm worried whats in front of me to trip me up.
I suppose what I'm trying to get at is that it's a NEVER ENDING BATTLE, it's not like an injury which will heal, that constant battle takes its toll on the mind. You say your husband has got worse, that may be the reason why, he is lucky that he has you, a fresh mind to help fight the battle with him.
Good luck to the two of you with the botox and please let me know how it goes.
Bev
QUOTE (jfr @ Feb 12 2010, 02:42 AM)

Hi everyone! I'm brand new here so bear with me. I am just so dang excited to find this site!
My husband is a c5-c7 incomplete walker. His accident was over 30 years ago and he had a huge amount of recovery, but as he has gotten older he seems to have had a lot more trouble with walking. We've only been married for 2 years so I'm really new to all this. We have several friends who have spinal cord injuries, but all are confined to a wheel chair, so I've never "met" anyone like my husband. His paralysis is mostly on his right side. He walks but has a severe limp and what Bev said about wearing out the toes of her shoes really struck me. He really struggles with spasticity in his right leg. He is so tight that he seems to just fight the leg all the time to walk.
Anyway, enough of the history. We met four years ago and in that time he has done nothing to better the walking situation. He has gotten worse since we met and what concerns me the most is just how much effort walking takes out of him. It's exhausting! I finally talked him into some pt, but we went to a new doctor who recommended BOTOX and well, he started it two days ago. I'm very hopeful and excited, but not sure what to expect. It was pretty painful as they used an electric current to find right nerves/muscles to put it into. But right away he has been able to wiggle his toes and he is better able to focus on walkinkg "heel-toe" instead of dragging his toes. Like I said we have no idea what to expect. I get the idea of how it's suppose to work, but just wish I knew the results we were going to get. He is getting a new brace and starting pt next week to help with the stretching.
So I'm more than interested in hearing what other people are going through and willing to share our journey. That's intersting about the high heels, but I don't think my husband is going to go for them.
jennifer
houston, tx