QUOTE (qbounce @ Nov 9 2009, 09:57 AM)

I recommend that you read more posts around here, then come back and ask specific questions. Not this vague one that begs for the wrong type of responses.
In a nutshell, people with SCI have sex. Even enjoy it, and I would much rather be doing that at this very moment than responding to your post, to be honest.--haha
That said, please, look around, join in the forums and learn from previous posts, as there's to much information to cover with your broad question.
Thank you I apologize it was a bit fague or even probably a bit tacky .
Honestly I don't know anything about using these sites, or this injury or have ever had to deal with anything like this. Our relationship is different to norm as his family does not accept me so I cannot go to visit him or communicate with him or his doctors , so I have his best friend to go through for information . So I thought I would try this.