QUOTE (hockeydahc @ May 9 2007, 06:52 PM)

hmm. thats inpiring in itself, man. I've got all kinds of confidence and it all goes out the window when i'm interested in a girl. don't know how you did it, but I'm struggling with the virginity thing, and I'm sure it would happen eventually for me if I could just get up the courage to ask a girl out.
I don't know anyone that really asks girls out anymore. You just meet people and hang out like friends. "Wanna go get something to eat, watch a movie, go to the park, etc.?" Is some girl like hanging out with you as friends she will have no problem doing date type stuff. Just get over the shyness. It is not the chair holding you back.
I get more girls than most of my friends because I am not shy and I am a fun person. The only girls you won't get are the shallow ones you don't want anyway and just stir up drama when you do get them. You have to constantly be better than every other guy hitting on them. Not worth the trouble.