QUOTE (qbounce @ Sep 18 2008, 10:17 PM)

Fortunately attitude plays a large part in the recovery process too.
If he stays depressed in bed there's a good chance his recovery will be arduous and slow, but with the right attitude it definately makes a difference as to how much more quickly things progress.
Agree to that.
Your friend needs to make recovery his job and lifetime habit. I'd be looking for an exercise-based recovery center, a good nutritionist, home gym equipment, trainers, etc etc etc. Hospital rehab is not enough and, depending which program your at, a supplement at best.
I don't know of anyone who has recovered 100% of their former ability. It's probably as hard to read and accept that as it is to have to write it. I do, however, know people who have made profound recovery's none-the-less. Every little strength he gets back makes life that much easier. I've worked my way up to walking very short distances and standing with a walker, a far cry from my better days. That alone is saving measurable wear and tear on my shoulders as I age and to me - worth the 1000's of hours of input it's taken to get here
Encourage him to log on and take a part in online SCI communities and forums like this one, there's a wealth of collective information to take in.
good luck -