[Vmarie]

I am new here. I am 23 years old and my fiancee is 28 and has been in a chair for 9 years almost 10. We have been together for almost 4 years now, and we have a 2 year old little boy together.

He is a 5-6 incomplete quad, and uses caverject to achieve erection.

My story goes like this...

we got together when my first child was 6 months old. My fiancee told me he couldnt have children because he couldnt ejaculate. So after we were together for a few months i went off my birthcontrol because i figured i didnt need it. The following month while we were having sex, he spontaneously ejaculated and 3 weeks later i found out i was pregnant.

since then, we have experimented with different techniques, and found that KY and hand stimulation only on the head seems to do the trick.

we are now trying to get pregnant with our second child.. which will make #5 under age 5 in our home.. we also adopted from foster care (2 little girls, sisters)

we have been very fortunate, but this time around "trying" has been a challenge.


i wanted to share these things to offer any support, advise, experiences...

thanks
V

[KarenFerguson]

Just to let you know that KY jelly will kill sperm. We use run of the mill lotion (any kind) and that doesn't kill sperm like the KY will.

[Vmarie]

KarenFerguson, on Jan 9 2009, 10:51 PM, said:

Just to let you know that KY jelly will kill sperm. We use run of the mill lotion (any kind) and that doesn't kill sperm like the KY will.

yeah we know that.. since finding the "spot" we use "preeseed"

it is sperm friendly