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#1 Wheelsonfire

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 11:46 AM

Hi All

I have a tendency at times to wonder off the beaten track within threads, not to pi$$ anyone off, just elaborating.

Rather than tick Simon and Trinity off with the derailing of a thread.
I thought if a thread was been derailed this could be the place to go to bash it out like adults.

Any topic can be discussed/elaborated on as long as there is no hitting below the belt to get one's point across.

Please leave all toys in your box's boys and girls and play fair as Jenny407 will be watching and she has the power to keep you in detention after school.

Um, so who wants to jump in with something that has been welded to their chest for too long?

Who out there wanted to voice an opinion but feared the wrath of the Gods(Simon and Trinity) for going off thread?

Anyhows, it's here, it might go unanswered but at least I got a chance to waffle. :lmao:

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 11:49 AM

No need to worry, if a thread goes off the rails, it'll be split where possible, and a new topic started.

Posts will usually only be deleted, if the posts become abusive.

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 12:18 PM

Thanks Simon.

Please feel free to terminate the thread as it now looks like being an obsolete thread due to forum moderation.

I'm a newbie to this format of Internet usage.

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 12:24 PM

Nah, we'll keep it as a "Tangent" thread!

Oohh, look, a bird!

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 12:38 PM

View PostWheelsonfire, on May 6 2010, 01:46 PM, said:

I have a tendency at times to wonder off the beaten track within threads, not to pi$$ anyone off, just elaborating.


Please leave all toys in your box's boys and girls and play fair as Jenny407 will be watching and she has the power to keep you in detention after school.

Yes, thanks - me too - I like digressions. (For those who love literature: like James Joyce and Salinger - masters and lovers of digression!) I do get rebuked by GB, though - especially when talking about the Champions League. Is that the hidden reason?

And yes, Wheels, I'm in fact looking forward to keeping you in detention! You know, I really do this when my pupils "forget" their homework too often. So they asked recently if they could have a "party" with cookies and coffee and friends ... or if it would be just me (the teacher) and one girl. I said it's not a recompense, it's a punishment!!

Now would you consider detention with me (alone) a punishment??

And: Could you explain Gordon's comment on the 18-year-old to me now? Thanks!

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 01:39 PM

Thank you Simon

LOL ...... it's a plane no it's..............That bloke in the thread with Motor and his purpose in life.

Jenny

oooohhhhhh Jenny I would soooooo like to be in detention(ALONE) with you and I will make sure I'm a good boy and do everything you tell me.
As to whether it would be deemed a punishment.........oh I think the answer to that would indeed have to change threads http://www.apparelyz...?showtopic=7947

Regarding Gordon.

To travel back in time, keeping his maturity, keeping his knowledge intact, his age nearing 3 score, he would feel uncomfortable to be with one of 18 years due to the unfair advantage and it would seem inappropriate if you can read between the lines.

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 02:01 PM

John,

Well - about the detention ... I won't go into details here. ;)

I always find respect for teachers here in Germany is sadly lacking. ;) (You see how my own pupils joke around ... It's my favourite class, though, very nice.)

18-year-olds: I do understand. ;) But I found it so funny: The idea of Gordon (or you or whoever) in a handsome 18-year-old body, with a pretty young girl - "I don't know ..." Well ...

In fact, 18-year-olds, they feel invulnerable, all the world's open for them ... It has some charm. Ours is experience, irony, fun, whatever - but this outlook on life, that everything is possible, within reach ... I love talking with teenagers, and believe me, I take them very seriously.

Would I like to be 18 (or 14 or ...)? No, not really. Going through all that stuff again (with or without my experience) - no. I'm great where I am now. But, John, I couldn't say all that on the other thread. I would feel it to be inappropriate.

And as an 18-year-old, with a young handsome fellow - no problem, really ...

Keep digressing!

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 04:20 PM

Thought I'd chime in, so here goes, a question I've posed before elsewhere, now for debate here...

If the sky did indeed fall, would we all just be stardust or are we already?

As for the 18yr olds and/or Jenny alone in detention; w/cookies...only in dreams :(

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 04:46 PM

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If the sky did indeed fall, would we all just be stardust or are we already?
Yes, and yes.

The only way I can see (from Earth) that the sky was falling would be for the planet to lose all its atmosphere. It is safe to assume that should this happen, we would certainly be toast.

As we are all built from matter that originated from the stars, (including amino acids that have recently been found in meteorites) we could be described as being made from stardust. If the sky should fall (whatever that might mean) the substances from which we are made, ultimately (and I mean ultimately in its literal sense) would return to being stardust.

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Posted 06 May 2010 - 05:51 PM

In order for the sky to fall it would need to be a solid mass, which it is not. Except for maybe some haile, but that's not really the sky

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Posted 07 May 2010 - 08:09 AM

View PostStillFingers, on May 6 2010, 06:20 PM, said:

If the sky did indeed fall, would we all just be stardust or are we already?

As for the 18yr olds and/or Jenny alone in detention; w/cookies...only in dreams :muahaha:

- Second item first: Dreams are a nice thing, though, aren't they? Keep on dreaming - as long as you don't forget to live (and I'm sure you don't ...)

- The sky:
Me, I'm definitely stardust already. There is this new chemical element which scientists have just discovered some time ago. It dissolves very quickly, within seconds. I feel that's me. This life is just interim - I try to live it decently, being (hopefully!) sunshine to some, (probably) a pain in ..... for others. But I do long for Nirvana - dissolving into nothingness, stardust, eventually. Whether the sky falls or doesn't ...

God, was that philosophical instead of scientific? Perhaps the dreams are more real in the end. :sleep:

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Posted 07 May 2010 - 06:14 PM

Odd, I always thought Wheels was a female.

As for detention with a teacher such as the likes of Ladyfour-OH-sev-N, my pupils, (I have only 2 I'm afraid) can at times be bad, very bad and they dialate in excited anticipation of the after-school disepline (and bondage) they ever so rightly deserve.

As for jezzy's contemplation of the lower atmospheres falling, (as it were) that cannot and will not happen. I'll see to that.
BUT!
It might drift down ever so slowly, landing upon the tops of our heads to rest there much as would a butterfly lights upon the petals of a flower at the peak of it's bloom.

So let's all continue to digress shall we.
(just for everyone's edification, in Calathumpian, to digress means to undress)

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Posted 07 May 2010 - 08:41 PM

It's debating E-DOG, not masturbating........

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Posted 07 May 2010 - 11:17 PM

View PostE-DOG, on May 7 2010, 07:14 PM, said:

Odd, I always thought Wheels was a female.

Oh Ian you ole dawg you :wub:

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So let's all continue to digress shall we.
(just for everyone's edification, in Calathumpian, to digress means to undress)
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I'm waiting for you BIG boy :hug:

To digress..........meaning......Depart from the main subject in :hug: or :type: but I understand the Calathumpian side of things

All my love :wub:

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Posted 08 May 2010 - 09:14 AM

View PostE-DOG, on May 7 2010, 08:14 PM, said:

As for detention with a teacher such as the likes of Ladyfour-OH-sev-N, my pupils, (I have only 2 I'm afraid) can at times be bad, very bad and they dialate in excited anticipation of the after-school disepline (and bondage) they ever so rightly deserve.


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I just hope I can be properly serious and authoritative next time I set detention for my pupils!!!
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Posted 08 May 2010 - 09:34 AM

View PostE-DOG, on May 7 2010, 08:14 PM, said:

As for jezzy's contemplation of the lower atmospheres falling, (as it were) that cannot and will not happen. I'll see to that.
BUT!
It might drift down ever so slowly, landing upon the tops of our heads to rest there much as would a butterfly lights upon the petals of a flower at the peak of it's bloom.


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Beautifully said ... poetic :mfromg:
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Posted 11 May 2010 - 08:58 PM

Well, I am glad to say that I have finally found the time to answer Jenny's question.For those who are interested... Here goes:

If you were able to exchange your fifty-plus body for the body of an eighteen yearold, would you do it? And if you, then, were given the choice of romantic encounter with an actual eighteen yearold, or with another rejuvinated individual such as yourself, which would you choose?

I believe these questions lead us right to the heart of the challenges now posed by the future of humanity. The first, reflects our age old fascination with the idea of Eternal Youth. But the second, hints at how our thinking has now evolved beyond the familiar fables we have repeated to ourselves for so long.

Many times, back to the beginning of recorded culture, we have seen speculative tales of eternal youth in which the ultimate and inescapable consequence is an eventual weariness with life, such that the only remaining desire is that of release into death. In this scenario, all pleasures become dull when their novelty is gone.

But there is a fundamental flaw in this pretention: Yes we do become weary of sameness (and even exquisitely beautiful sameness) too oft repeated . However, for this to be an inescapable law, we must assume that the same experience, as in eating, or music, or lovemaking, shall remain subjectively the same each time we accomplish them. But, this is not true, because, as WE change, so the EXPERIENCE changes, even though the acts may remain essentially the same. In other words, our own developement, evolution, maturation, ensures that our subjective experience of the same acts will not remain the same. Moreover, as we DO change, even the ways we accomplish the basic acts of survival and art and love, also change, and so we see that the acts themselves do NOT remain the same, and because the world (for human purposes) is composed of all of these actions, it should become clear that as long as WE are evolving, the world of human society itself, in which we live, will also be changing, and there will therefore be no monotonous sameness of which we could become weary.

However, this point, for many centuries, remained moot, simply because the actual acheivement of prolonged youth, much less the reversal of age, was just not a technical possibility. Make no mistake, huge attention and manpower and ressources of all kinds was poured into the pursuit of Eternal Youth, especially among the most powerful, and this even into the most shameful magical practices of sufferring and sacrifice practiced upon those victims always found so readily to hand in the old order of slave society.

But almost all of this research, if we might give it that name, was concerned with the merely asethetic, the cosmetic, in a word the superficial mockery of the true beauty of youth. And from this understanding, another sort of fable arose, concerning the ill effects, not of reversing age, but of indefinitely maintaining it. In this vein, we read of the despair of the old, even surounded by the willing slaves of pleasure, because, no matter what they eat, they have no palate to taste, and no matter what celestial music they listen to, they have not the sharp ears of youth with which to capture its beauty, and of course, in love, no matter what intimacies are attempted, the ability to bring them to conclusion is lacking, or, if that ability be present, once again, the jaded senses of old age would prevent us from enjoying the acts as we would like. And all of this, once again, leads back to a feeling of indifference and even disgust, with all of the good things that life has to offer.

And if we were alive a hundred, or a thousand years ago, these fables, admirably suited, as they are, to soften the touch of death, by reassuring us that longer life is perhaps less than desirable, would have satisfied and calmed our idle interest in what was an evidently impossible desire at the outset.

However, today, the situation has radically changed. We have seen, in the last generations, a REAL extension of youthful vigor, and a REAL reversal of many of the worst effects of age. We have --in no particular order-- reading glasses, rational nutrition, medication, hearing aids, electric scooters and viagra, to mention only these. And basic research into the causes of ageing and strategies to defeat them has progressed so far that we must now begin to consider the philosophical ramifications of extended lifespan, not as idle speculation, but as required and pressing forward planning for their inevitable realisation.

And now, returning to original the question, “Would you prefer a real eighteen yearold, or a fifty yearold with the equivalent of an eighteen yearold body?” I would respond that an actual eighteen yearold knows nothing at all about love. All that they possess are those wonderful freebees of evolution, which, however entrancing they are to begin with, DO become dull and old and boring after one has experienced them a number of times. There is, in short, such a thing as Too Many Virgins. But once deliberate invention has taken the reins, there is no such danger. And I would imagine that an intelligent and inventive old slut with a pristine body would indeed be, from a sexual point of view, a truly formidable personage.

If for instance, we were to recognize that a particular person has a talent for lovemaking, in the same way that J.S. Bach evidently had a talent for musical compostition, would we rather benefit from that talent when the person in question was only eighteen? Or after she had another thirty years of experience, that is, at the age of fifty?
(always assuming that the physcial attributes remain the same-- the texture, the sponginess, the liquification, the warmth, but I forget myself...).

I would say, that if the artist, and we can indeed call her that, were to continue evolving as we spoke of earlier, in both her accomplishment of the acts, and of her experience, then at an advanced age, she would clearly be in a completely different league from an actual young maiden, blushing like the rose, and innocent of the touch of man.

After all, which is better, a young man with a little talent on a saxophone? Or the same man in mature age? The fact is, that Bach (and the other giants of composition) wrote their “best stuff” when they were fifty, and the exceptions like Chopin merely invite us to wonder of what masterpieces tuberculosis (or alcohol and drugs) has ao often robbed us.

In any case, returning to the original statement that the future of humanity is tied up in these riddles, I think it is nothing short of a question of survival for any higher species (of which I believe we are an entry-level example. Can we go forward and CREATE our own pleasures and interests, or will we always be the mere puppets of our evolutionary motivations reinforced with sensual treats, designed only as encouragements for us to reproduce the species? IT is in fact the question of emaining stagnant as THIS species, or taking a deliberate hand in inventing any number of future variants based upon our own deliberate love of life.

My own bias is very clear. If I had the ability to recycle myself in a body of my own design, and were that design to deliberately evolve over time in response, not to some mindless biological survival based paradigm, but in response to the only thing that motivates me even now, which is the simple pleasure of conscious experience and its endless variations, then I would naturally gravitate towards companions who were situated at something like my own level, as opposed to those of an inacsessible sophistication, on the one hand, or an insupportable innocence, on the other.

I would choose my friends, including those I go to bed with (even if I had a brand new body), most preferentially from among those at a similar experience level to my own.

Now I know that some will say this post is WAY too long, and a lot of others will not even read it to begin with, but personally I find the human condition fascinating, and this question of Eternal Youth is at once fundamental to our cultural history and extremely relevant to our current social experience. Therefore, I find it worth the time to write, and perhaps, one or two will also find it is worth the time to read.

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 12:48 AM

Ah Gordon,

I read through your post, tried my best to digest it's many points. Erm, I'll read it again later tonight but may not reply quickly.

I do agree with you on the like kind/mind/maturity notion. At 52, even with an 18yr old body, I'm really not much interested in being teacher anymore, continued explorations of the depths/layers of intimacy is more to my liking. Although if some firm, young lovely required intimate in-depth personal instruction...well lets just say I'd lend a hand or two :drooldrip: without much hesitation...in my dreams of course.

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 01:15 AM

View PostStillFingers, on May 12 2010, 12:48 AM, said:

Although if some firm, young lovely required intimate in-depth personal instruction...well lets just say I'd lend a hand or two :drooldrip: without much hesitation...

Yeah I know. Its tough work, but someone's got to do it!

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 12:32 PM

Gordon

A philosophical analysis, and very well versed.

Digested, I must find the time to cherry pick.

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 03:35 PM

Gordon

Thank you for taking so much time and thoughtfulness to answer my question.

Like John - unfortunately I'm in a hurry now, writing this between a conference and another meeting. :(

But I intend to give you a thorough answer. You deserve it. If I don't - I'll be away with class next week ... Everything is a bit tight now for me. I hope you also accept late answers ...

Generally - it's a real pleasure reading some of your posts. ;)

Jenny

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View PostStillFingers, on May 12 2010, 12:48 AM, said:

Although if some firm, young lovely required intimate in-depth personal instruction...well lets just say I'd lend a hand or two :) without much hesitation...

Yeah I know. Its tough work, but someone's got to do it!

-G

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 04:08 PM

You're right G,,, it was long.

While some of what you say, I think you actually believe,, I don't think you give the male of our species the discredit it so richly deserves. I can't say anything about the female psyche,, since I'm always on the outside looking in.

We,, men,, are all too often, vain or egotistical when it comes to how we interact with the opposite sex. Most long to hear the words " you're the best I've ever had",,, even when they know they aren't true. When with a new partner, worry about performance, or size. If you are with someone with a great deal of experience,, they could, obviously, judge those things quite easily. Would we really want to hear the answers?

It's often heard that one would love to be young again and know what one knows now,,, but would we really? Thinking back,, my fondest moments were those of discovery,, of reaching a new level of competence ( in whatever interested me at the moment),, or helping someone else do the same.

There are many things in my life that I would like to have a "do over" on,, but for the most part I would rather have the chance to do new things. So,, in my case at least,, I'd probably opt for the nubile young body (and mind) for the physical things,, and the experienced older for the companionship and arguments.

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Posted 12 May 2010 - 06:12 PM

The Sky hasn't fallen in, I've just stopped subscribing to it.

(Was that too long Jenny?)
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Posted 12 May 2010 - 09:07 PM

View PostScribbler, on May 12 2010, 08:12 PM, said:

The Sky hasn't fallen in, I've just stopped subscribing to it.

(Was that too long Jenny?)

No - it wasn't! And I think I've even got the joke (I hope ...).
Have a good night, Scribs!
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Posted 12 May 2010 - 09:55 PM

Too long, too long, TOO LONG!
Sheesh! That's all I ever HEAR!

It's late, gotta date, and I hate to debate. It does so debilitate. I think, at any rate. So I'll comb what hair I have left on my pate then wait at the gate for Nate, my date. With whom I'd like to help populate the great state of Iowa.

That would be Nate as in Natalie, not Nathan you nincompoop.

sorry. boredom strikes at the most inopportune of times.

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Posted 13 May 2010 - 12:26 AM

View PostE-DOG, on May 12 2010, 09:55 PM, said:

boredom strikes at the most inopportune of times.
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Surely the hand of Fate.

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Posted 13 May 2010 - 09:01 AM

You may consider me to be very wierd
But I have no wish to live longer then my allotted time
Nor do I wish to re-live those agonising days of my youth
The memories of growing and maturing are enough to scare the living daylights out of anybody wierd enough to read my mind
I dont regret what I have done or what I have yet to do
Far to busy doin it
Nor do I have a desire to change any past event as to do so would have led to a differant future which in all likely hood would be worse then todays

Unleessssssssssssss

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Posted 13 May 2010 - 04:35 PM

View Postgordonr, on May 11 2010, 10:58 PM, said:

If you were able to exchange your fifty-plus body for the body of an eighteen yearold, would you do it? And if you, then, were given the choice of romantic encounter with an actual eighteen yearold, or with another rejuvinated individual such as yourself, which would you choose?


However, today, the situation has radically changed. We have seen, in the last generations, a REAL extension of youthful vigor, and a REAL reversal of many of the worst effects of age. We have --in no particular order-- reading glasses, rational nutrition, medication, hearing aids, electric scooters and viagra, to mention only these. And basic research into the causes of ageing and strategies to defeat them has progressed so far that we must now begin to consider the philosophical ramifications of extended lifespan, not as idle speculation, but as required and pressing forward planning for their inevitable realisation.

There is, in short, such a thing as Too Many Virgins. But once deliberate invention has taken the reins, there is no such danger. And I would imagine that an intelligent and inventive old slut with a pristine body would indeed be, from a sexual point of view, a truly formidable personage.

If for instance, we were to recognize that a particular person has a talent for lovemaking, ...

I would say, that if the artist, and we can indeed call her that, were to continue evolving as we spoke of earlier, in both her accomplishment of the acts, and of her experience, then at an advanced age, she would clearly be in a completely different league from an actual young maiden, blushing like the rose, and innocent of the touch of man.

I would choose my friends, including those I go to bed with (even if I had a brand new body), most preferentially from among those at a similar experience level to my own.

Now I know that some will say this post is WAY too long, and a lot of others will not even read it to begin with, but personally I find the human condition fascinating, and this question of Eternal Youth is at once fundamental to our cultural history and extremely relevant to our current social experience. Therefore, I find it worth the time to write, and perhaps, one or two will also find it is worth the time to read.

Best Regards,

Gordon

Hello Gordon -

some break - some time to really read your post. Hmm - not so easy to answer and a bit different from what I expected.

One aspect: Are we really heading towards the "inevitable realisation" of eternal youth? No, I don't believe so. Some progress has been made (and will still be made), but on the whole, I don't believe it's possible like that. How much energy you must have to be wishing to go on and on and on ... Not my dream.

<Another aspect: "Too Many Virgins". I've found no lady-like answer to that ... OK, perhaps some truth in it. What a wording, though, Gordon!>

The friend / lover: Hmm, I was thinking of the soul, the mind, the brain - not actually of the "art of lovemaking". OK, agreed, that's an idea ... interesting, to say the least.

But my view: As far as the soul / the mind goes: The intellectual, ironical, experienced way of talking / writing of somebody a lot older than 18 is in fact, as Wowereit would say "sexy". (Wowereit is our gay Berlin mayor who is famous for two sayings: "I'm gay, and that's a good thing." and "Berlin is poor but sexy.") So, talking to somebody with more experience is "sexy", rewarding, interesting. Yes. Sure. But when I think of my German 40+ friends: We all wear scars on our souls, we have become skeptical, critical, cautious in so many ways. That's another part of maturity. It's good, it's natural - but a companion with the total optimism and carefreeness of (SOME) youngsters ... this holds an interest, too. Yet might be boring after a while ... And definitely, like Dave said: What a blessing my own teenage years are over! (Perhaps the idea of "optimism" and "youth" is just an illusion, come to think of it ...)

So, Gordon, let's see if the concept of eternal youth will become more real during our lifetime. I doubt it very much!
Jenny
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans." John Lennon

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Posted 13 May 2010 - 05:56 PM

Gordon.
"In view of the somewhat nebulous and inexplicit nature of your remit and the arguably marginal and peripheral nature of your influence within the central deliberations and decisions within this debating process that there could be a case for re-structuring your actions priorities in such a way as to eliminate your liquidation from this immediate agenda."

I'm sure Jenny will easily understand all that. If you do, can you explain it to me please..... :clap:
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Posted 14 May 2010 - 07:02 AM

View PostScribbler, on May 13 2010, 07:56 PM, said:

Gordon.
"In view of the somewhat nebulous and inexplicit nature of your remit and the arguably marginal and peripheral nature of your influence within the central deliberations and decisions within this debating process that there could be a case for re-structuring your actions priorities in such a way as to eliminate your liquidation from this immediate agenda."

I'm sure Jenny will easily understand all that. If you do, can you explain it to me please..... :rolleyes:

My dearest Scribs,

Methinks thou mockst me!!
Here I go, a true lover of the English language - struggling doggedly with all the variations to be found on the forum. Gordon's English, Scribs' English, E-DOG's and Illinois' English (? English??) - understanding half of it, not understanding the other half ...

I must say, Shakespeare, the master-mind and poet, is easy by comparison. We are just reading the "Midsummer Night's Dream" in class:
Act 1, Scene 1, Hermia: "... By all the vows that ever men have broke / (In number more than ever women spoke) ..."

or Lysander: "The course of true love never did run smooth"

THAT I understand in language and meaning without any problems at all ... ;)

But, Scribs, go on mocking - you know how I like a little laughter!


And Gordon,

I was thinking of my SONG FOR GORDON.

Jenny: "Do you really want to live forever?"
Gordon: "I want to be forever young ... Youth is like diamonds in the sun / And diamonds are forever ..."

:D



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