Posted 28 June 2006 - 04:25 PM
Hello Kath, Billy's Mom, Adi and Cyclops,
I hope I'm not wearing out my welcome by posting so often, but my story is changing daily and I hope I can offer some encouragement for you.
Adi, I am 38 years old with CP, and my doctor in 1969 or so told my Dad and birth mother I would die before I was a teenager (which I believe was part of her reasoning in leaving my Dad and me, but that's another story). Well, here I am, with CP and healthy, college grad, career in graphic design, married, 2 stepsons, drive 2 cars, have a mortgage, etc. I crawled around the house till first grade when I got a walker. My Dad remarried when I was 3 and I think they just didn't want to face that fact that I needed assistance till it was necessary (starting school). Even all these years later, I was reluctant to tell them I was getting the pump. They're the faith-healer types, and though my Christian beliefs have moved beyond the sophistry that they believe, I still didn't want to tell them because I kind of felt they would see me as a failure for doing this (another long story behind that).
My Dad and stepmom (aka "Mom") aren't perfect, but the best thing they did for me was not let me feel sorry for myself. They recognized my limitations and accomodated them, but boy did they push me! I school, in relating to others - I am so thankful they treated me as any other kid and expected me to behave as any "normal" kid. They had two daughters, my sisters, who have no disabilities, and they treated each of us equally. I love my sisters and would do anything for them. I just hope as parents, you all can be encouraged by this.
Billy's Mom, I am so sorry your son has had trouble with infectons and fluid leakage. That must be frustrating. I don't understand why spinal fluid is leaking from around the pump site.
I am in my sixth day since the surgery and doing well. The most difficult part has been sitting around doing nothing! One of my coworkers visited yesterday, and everyone at work is bugging him about my status. My wife won't let me go in the kitchen and wash dishes (she's working from home this week so she can help me). Per my past post, my digestive system is waking up but seems to be working in slow motion like the rest of my body. However, I am noticing little improvements every day (I could stand this morning while Jen redressed my back incision, then I brushed my teeth and washed up without feeling like I was going to fall down, and yesterday I stood up the whole time I showered). Some clear liquid stained a small spot my t-shirt yesterday, so Jen is concerned about the back incision a little. The pump incision is doing great (even slept on that side last night). I stopped taking the narcotic pain med, and haven't taken anything for pain since yesterday afternoon. My pain is mostly in my rear end from sitting and lying down. Ugh! Luckily I have a Mac Powerbook, a card table and power recliner, so hey, I can do some freelance graphic design work for one of my clients.
Oh, Kath, your doctor will do the pump test before any surgery. I had this done two months ago. My neurologist injected Baclofen directly into my lower spine and waitied to see what happened. Two hours later we knew that I was a good candidate. My doc's attitude was kind of like, "You have reservations about doing this?! You're the perfect candidate so let's do this thing!" I remember that when I am in pain or haven't been able to move my legs in the last six days. Prior to surgery I was very mobile, so this post-surgery muscle weakness and resting is cramping my lifestyle!
Dave