[bigsmiles]

Hello everybody,thought it time i introduced myself here as i feel somewhat of an intruder really. I asked for advice here from all you guys quite a few months ago regarding a lovely man who i care for on a daily basis with a t6 injury (thought t4 at the time) got it wrong.Few of you may remember it as "Falling for a client" Which i did, and since then our relationship has got stronger and stronger .Well i took all you guys advice and explained my feelings and yes he feels the same....Yippee Anyhow i am leaving the agency today in which i work for to start a new job caring eleswhere in a couple of weeks,and we are taking a few weeks apart to see how things are with us both to put closure if you like to the Client/Carer relationship thing. Should imagine things are gonna be a little strange without seeing each other everyday.Anyhow we are hoping that when he is up and about more( when his wound eventually does heal) that we can start to enjoy going about a bit.Was wondering if any of you are familiar with something called a vacs machine or vac therapy machine ? as he has been attached to this in bed for almost seven weeks now to help with the healing.Apart from the wound looking smaller it still looks very deep inside, down to the bone in fact so hes thinking this is a complete waste of time and needs surgury on it.Well i better go and get my bottom in to gear as its now time for work could sit here all day)Take care all......Bye for now Sarahxx

[Jilly]

Hi Sarah...Welcome back and thanks for the update. Im glad things are going well for you and your guy. The time apart will be good like you say to put closure to the client/carer relationship. Hope it all goes well for the both of you. Come back and talk to us anytime.

[bigsmiles]

Hi to you again Jilly and thanks for your reply.Its a pity you live the other side of the world as we could have met up for coffee and a good old natter. Somehow dont think my car would make it I look forward to chatting more to you and all in the future.