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#1 cvelusc

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 11:48 AM

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Strongest Dad in the World [From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly] Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day.

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Strongest Dad in the World

[From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly]

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay
for their text messaging. Take them to swimsuit shoots.

But compared with Dick Hoyt, I suck.

Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in
marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a
wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and
pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same
day.

Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back
mountain climbing. Makes taking your son bowling look a little lame,
right?

And what has Rick done for his father? Not much--except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick
was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him
brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs.

``He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;'' Dick says doctors told
him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. ``Put him in an
institution.''

But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way Rick's eyes
followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the
engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was
anything to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick says he was
told. "There's nothing going on in his brain.''

"Tell him a joke,'' Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out
a lot was going on in his brain. Rigged up with a computer that allowed
him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his
head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? "Go Bruins!''
And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the
school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, ``Dad, I want
to do that.''

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described ``porker'' who never ran
more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still,
he tried. "Then it was me who was handicapped,'' Dick says. "I was sore for
two weeks.''

That day changed Rick's life. ``Dad,'' he typed, ``when we were
running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!''

And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving
Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly
shape that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon.
"No way,'' Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite
a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a
few years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then
they found a way to get into the race officially: In 1983 they ran
another marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the
following year.

Then somebody said, "Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?''

How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since
he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still,
Dick tried.

Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour
Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud
getting passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you
think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? ``No way,'' he says.
Dick does it purely for ``the awesome feeling'' he gets seeing Rick
with a cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together.

This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston
Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their
best time'? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world
record, which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens
to be held by a guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at
the time.

``No question about it,'' Rick types. ``My dad is the Father of the Century.''

And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had
a mild heart attack arteries was 95% clogged. ``If you hadn't been in
such great shape,'' one doctor told him, ``you probably would've died 15
years ago.''

So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.

Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care) and works in
Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass.,
always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and
compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this
Father's Day.

That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really
wants to give him is a gift he can never buy. `The thing I'd most like,''
Rick types, ``is that my dad sit in the chair and I push him once.''

Edited by cvelusc, 19 October 2006 - 02:28 PM.


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Posted 19 October 2006 - 12:09 PM

wow that is amazing .Just watched the video that is so powerfull .Well done to them .I feel proud for them

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 02:20 PM

Amazing...wonder if Colonel will go all out for me...
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Posted 19 October 2006 - 02:29 PM

View PostJohn Anderson, on Oct 19 2006, 03:20 PM, said:

Amazing...wonder if Colonel will go all out for me...
From your postings, I'd say you have a really great Dad. I'm sure he'd go all out for you, but you'd probably have to do the same.

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 03:47 PM

Thanks brought a tear to my eye

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 03:58 PM

Now I have to go re-do my makeup.

What an inspiring story! Loved it....thank you! :)
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Posted 19 October 2006 - 04:08 PM

As someone who is about to run her first marathon in about a week, that is a really inspiring and amazing story.

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 09:07 PM

What an amazing man. Such devotion. Brought tears to my eyes. His son is so lucky that his father believed in him. A Heartwarmimg story.
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Posted 19 October 2006 - 10:19 PM

Wow! :H2kOther (26):

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Posted 19 October 2006 - 10:20 PM

View Postcvelusc, on Oct 19 2006, 07:29 AM, said:

From your postings, I'd say you have a really great Dad. I'm sure he'd go all out for you, but you'd probably have to do the same.

I would go all out for him, like that time I sent over 3 dozen of cookies to him (which was bad cuz 1. I can't cook or bake 2. Cookies were a bad idea cuz they would melt and get all over stuff and also, they would sometimes rot... :H2kOther (26): ) but I did it anyway.

After a couple days, I got a call from him, and I still remember what he said as I pick up the phone. (Please keep in mind I was only in 7th grade when he said this :lol:)

"ANDERSON, WHAT THE $(%* HELL WERE YOU THINKING? YOU KNOW THE REGULATIONS OF SENTING PACKAGES AND YOU KNOW THESE #*%& COOKIES AND FOOD WILL ROT AND WILL MELT UNLESS IT IS PACKAGE CORRECTLY. WHAT THE $*%( WERE YOU THINING WHEN YOU DECIDED TO SENT THAT PACKAGE? YOU KNOW BETTER THEN THAT."

I didn't say anything, cuz he was right, I knew it was against regulation but I did it anyways cuz I thought he would want come of the Chocholate Chip Cookies that we were eating back home. I just listened till he said,

"HOWEVER...." I thought he was just going to yell at me more, but..."I really am thankful that you thought of me Anderson. You went all out, I know that. Thank you very much for those cookies, or what looks like them anyways. Now hand the phone over to your Mother."

and I did just that, after that, I never sent him cookies again. :doh:
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Posted 19 October 2006 - 11:58 PM

WOW!!!!! What an amazing Dad!! What an amazing human being!!! How many parents could, or would, do that for a child?? Made me want to just reach out and squeeze them both!!! Amazing!!! Don't know what to say, apparently, but it touched my heart!!! Thanks for sharing, cvelusc!!

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Posted 20 October 2006 - 12:14 AM

View PostJohn Anderson, on Oct 19 2006, 07:20 PM, said:

View Postcvelusc, on Oct 19 2006, 07:29 AM, said:

From your postings, I'd say you have a really great Dad. I'm sure he'd go all out for you, but you'd probably have to do the same.

I would go all out for him, like that time I sent over 3 dozen of cookies to him (which was bad cuz 1. I can't cook or bake 2. Cookies were a bad idea cuz they would melt and get all over stuff and also, they would sometimes rot... :H2kOther (26): ) but I did it anyway.

After a couple days, I got a call from him, and I still remember what he said as I pick up the phone. (Please keep in mind I was only in 7th grade when he said this :doh:)

"ANDERSON, WHAT THE $(%* HELL WERE YOU THINKING? YOU KNOW THE REGULATIONS OF SENTING PACKAGES AND YOU KNOW THESE #*%& COOKIES AND FOOD WILL ROT AND WILL MELT UNLESS IT IS PACKAGE CORRECTLY. WHAT THE $*%( WERE YOU THINING WHEN YOU DECIDED TO SENT THAT PACKAGE? YOU KNOW BETTER THEN THAT."

I didn't say anything, cuz he was right, I knew it was against regulation but I did it anyways cuz I thought he would want come of the Chocholate Chip Cookies that we were eating back home. I just listened till he said,

"HOWEVER...." I thought he was just going to yell at me more, but..."I really am thankful that you thought of me Anderson. You went all out, I know that. Thank you very much for those cookies, or what looks like them anyways. Now hand the phone over to your Mother."

and I did just that, after that, I never sent him cookies again. :doh:


:lol: John, sounds like your dad probably couldn't help himself, thinking in a military manner as he did. I don't understand "military", I'll be the first to admit, but I think you just can't take it out of the man!! Right?? He did say he was thankful you thought of him though....... :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
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Posted 20 October 2006 - 02:53 AM

Fantastic story
John,
I think you're a great son. And never say never. Leaders have to direct others. And you're already on your way to becoming a good one (one cookie at a time) :H2kOther (26):

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Posted 20 October 2006 - 06:00 AM

:H2kOther (26): Your story made me cry John :doh: it was very sweet...you're both lucky to have each other :lol: :doh:

The story about Rick and dick was on OPRAH, i cried then as well!!!

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Posted 20 October 2006 - 06:31 AM

View Postsandyrun, on Oct 19 2006, 05:14 PM, said:

:lol: John, sounds like your dad probably couldn't help himself, thinking in a military manner as he did. I don't understand "military", I'll be the first to admit, but I think you just can't take it out of the man!! Right?? He did say he was thankful you thought of him though....... :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

I know you can't, for a fact :doh:


View Postonion, on Oct 19 2006, 07:53 PM, said:

Fantastic story
John,
I think you're a great son. And never say never. Leaders have to direct others. And you're already on your way to becoming a good one (one cookie at a time) :)

Thanks Onion...I try :P :doh: :H2kOther (26):
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Posted 20 October 2006 - 09:36 AM

[quote name='cvelusc' date='Oct 19 2006, 12:48 PM' post='18973']
Excerpt:
Strongest Dad in the World [From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly] Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day.

Hi Cvelusc

What a truely inspirational story, it had me in tears!!!!

Then I got totally engrossed in the site it was on!!!! lol

What is that all about!!! It is a strange one!! lol

Any way thank you for sharing your find with us.

Andria x
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Posted 20 October 2006 - 01:26 PM

Well like the others I'm truly blown away & feel very humble. I thought I had problems but wow :mfrlol:
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Posted 20 October 2006 - 05:36 PM

View Postsandyrun, on Oct 20 2006, 12:58 AM, said:

WOW!!!!! What an amazing Dad!! What an amazing human being!!! How many parents could, or would, do that for a child??

Side tracking here, but the arsehole who calls himself my father, travelled 6000miles with his girlfriend (my mother) to dump me in England (for adoption)!! :mfrlol:
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Posted 20 October 2006 - 06:04 PM

View PostLadyPilot, on Oct 20 2006, 05:36 PM, said:

Side tracking here, but the arsehole who calls himself my father, travelled 6000miles with his girlfriend (my mother) to dump me in England (for adoption)!! :mfrlol:

:wacko: His loss. I'm sorry he didn't see that.

Knowing what you now know...I'm sure it was ultimately your gain.

:toast: (((HUGS)))

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Posted 22 October 2006 - 07:28 AM

View PostJoed, on Oct 20 2006, 07:04 PM, said:

View PostLadyPilot, on Oct 20 2006, 05:36 PM, said:

Side tracking here, but the arsehole who calls himself my father, travelled 6000miles with his girlfriend (my mother) to dump me in England (for adoption)!! :)

:clap: His loss. I'm sorry he didn't see that.

Knowing what you now know...I'm sure it was ultimately your gain.

:yahoo: (((HUGS)))

It certainly was my gain! My adoptive parents gave me the best chances in life and I am who I am through their guidance and love.
My "bio" father traced me 2 years ago. Nice to know where I came from but I have no feelings for him at all.

Thanks for the HUG it was just what I needed. One of my pets died this week.
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Posted 22 October 2006 - 09:46 AM

Thats was such a lovely story to read....thankyou :)
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Posted 22 October 2006 - 08:26 PM

LadyPilot: I feel for you and the pain you have carried all these years from being "dumped" for adoption. I am happy, however, for you that you ended up being adopted by loving and caring parents. So many infants end up in an actual dumpster, being left for death.

Do you think your bio-dad thought he was doing what was best for you, or was, and is, he just a sorry human being? Also, you've not stated your feelings for your bio-mom, as she also was included in dumping you for adoption. Do you have as strong feelings for her? I do not ask these to upset you, nor necessarily expect a reply/answer. Just wondering as you are so adament about your feelings for your bio-dad.

I hope you, in time, can get over the anger, and hurt, for your bio-dad. Not for him, but strictly for you. I have not personally experienced this, so I cannot truly understand where you are coming from. But I do have lots of emphathy for you.

And, as for your pet, I am sorry for your loss. :doctor:

Edited by sandyrun, 22 October 2006 - 08:28 PM.

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