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#1 Nicki42

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Posted 26 February 2007 - 05:31 PM

Hello all, I'm 42 years young and have been living with my 50 year old partner who has Spina Bifida [T10/11] for a few years now, and overcome some of the difficulties in having a physical relationship. My better half has limited sensation asa I'm sure you will all Know about, but recently has been experiencing discomfort/pain in his penis after sex/masturbation, this seems to be under his foreskin despite frequent washing and using lubrication. We enjoy rather intimet contact but I'm a bit scared to touch his penis because it looks reddish/pink more than usual. As I said he uses KY jelly for everyday lubrication/personal hygene, maybe try something else?? is this maybe an age thing?? Take care all, Nicki :H2kOther (26):

#2 brackman22

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Posted 28 February 2007 - 12:22 AM

Hi nicki,
I can't help with your problem. I think you would have more luck if you tried posting in the Relationship & Sexuality forum.

Good luck,

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#3 ryan Kruse

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Posted 28 February 2007 - 04:53 AM

View PostNicki42, on Feb 26 2007, 11:31 AM, said:

Hello all, I'm 42 years young and have been living with my 50 year old partner who has Spina Bifida [T10/11] for a few years now, and overcome some of the difficulties in having a physical relationship. My better half has limited sensation asa I'm sure you will all Know about, but recently has been experiencing discomfort/pain in his penis after sex/masturbation, this seems to be under his foreskin despite frequent washing and using lubrication. We enjoy rather intimet contact but I'm a bit scared to touch his penis because it looks reddish/pink more than usual. As I said he uses KY jelly for everyday lubrication/personal hygene, maybe try something else?? is this maybe an age thing?? Take care all, Nicki :)

sounds like he and his little guy needs a break. lol I'd change lubercants to something else like astro glide.




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