[Brainiac]

Hi, I'm new hear.sorry about the spilling.

I have Idiopathic Scoliosis and had the harrington rods put into my back.
but what I'm going to ask about isn't about me. I meet this wonderful girl about six mouths
she has avascular necrosis in the legs.So, we where talking to each other.She told me that she belives she worthless and is only good for sex.As this is what her loveing father says and has brainwashed her ino thanking it.This made very mad and now I worry about she may hurt hersalf.
I told her, shes not worthless. But, you keep beliveing that and you will be.I also told her she can do anything you put your mind to. I would have said somethange about it to her father.But, I was in a house of god.I don't won't to be one more person that has turn there back on her.I belive, that god doesn't put people onto this plant to be worthless.

What should I do anythange about it.

Is there any good books that i could give her?

[wheeliebear75]

That's horrible what you said is happening. I would say that her situation is abusive and that if she were my friend I'd be contacting social services. It is possible that they may be able to find her somewhere else to live. Nobody should have to be confined, degraded, or miss treated! There are group homes as a temporary solution and there are ways through HUD, IHSS, and SSI that she should be able to have her OWN place to live with people coming in to help her.....not order her around. I'd say she needs some serious counselling after hearing how worthless she is all of her life. Hope this helps.