Posted 27 August 2007 - 10:48 PM
Greetings JoJo1107
The first year almost routinely produces the hardest lessons which, generally, means there are better, less problematic times to come.
I’m para, so your experiences are going to be greatly different but there is some common ground. In my first year, I had skin problems, leaking urinary problems, fatigue problems and problem problems. I thought this SCI life was going to be really tough and scary. But much of that melted into oblivion over the years.
Your pressure wound is a serious setback and hard lesson. It’s also a stark realization of the care you now need to take to stay healthy. So you’ve already learned a significant lesson. Loaded with the knowledge you now have, if you take good care of that wound to heal it to its maximum and continue to take sensible care of your skin you may never have that problem again.
I now look back on my early years as a bit of a joke (the years have removed the pain) because my life got so much easier and more rewarding than I imagined it was going to be. From my experience, for the first year my mind was a confused turmoil, the second it was only slightly better and it wasn’t till the third that I felt I was me again
So, I’d say you’ve got serious work on your hands to get that pressure wound healed and get through the slow, patient process of getting mobile without it breaking down again. That means sticking rigidly to the rules set by your medical people. Once that problem is out of the way, there’s a rewarding life to grab.
"It's the notion that there is no perfection ~ that this is a broken world and we live with broken hearts and broken lives but still that is no alibi for anything. On the contrary, you have to stand up and say hallelujah under those circumstances. " - Leonard Cohen