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[rkzenrage]

Did too much this week, family dinners and Halloween stuff, etc.
We had a date tonight, our first one in months. I am in too much pain to go.
It is a bondage class that a friend of hers from school teaches, she really wanted me to meet her friends from high-school and we never get to do adult things.
Bed-bound today.
I am so sick of this.

[dave420atya]

Man , I'm sorry you feel to bad to go out to learn how to get tied up and beat on.Oh , I couldn't resist .
Sorry for the joke . It's all I can do to make light of a heavy siituation. I to frequently suffer great pian so, I can relate to missing out cuz I"m hurting.
Mine is nerve pain . I reciently found some relief by doubling my dose of Lyrica to 300mg every 8 hours and accompaning it with 10 mg Loratab.
What kind of pain do you suffer?
What are you taking and or tried? I hope your up getting tied up real soon!
SERIOUSLY , HANG IN THERE MAN!!!!

[jonny]

rkzenrage, on Nov 4 2007, 05:40 PM, said:

Did too much this week, family dinners and Halloween stuff, etc.
We had a date tonight, our first one in months. I am in too much pain to go.
It is a bondage class that a friend of hers from school teaches, she really wanted me to meet her friends from high-school and we never get to do adult things.
Bed-bound today.
I am so sick of this.

hey very deppressed you could always help me try and work out how to use this website?help!!

[Lucydog]

Aquarians are having a bad time at the moment..... I know gobbledy gook but what can I say? Ive been in tears for 3 weeks, my sister in law was subject to an anti semitic attack, see we're all aquarians?!

Ok so Im trying to make light of it, but in all honesty I hope things pick up for you. I do know how you feel as I have been seriously depressed recently, I do try to think, tomorrow is another day, and fingers crossed it will be a better one.

take good care.

Edited by Lucydog, 04 November 2007 - 10:22 PM.

[cate]

Lucydog, on Nov 4 2007, 10:21 PM, said:

Aquarians are having a bad time at the moment..... I know gobbledy gook but what can I say? Ive been in tears for 3 weeks, my sister in law was subject to an anti semitic attack, see we're all aquarians?!

Ok so Im trying to make light of it, but in all honesty I hope things pick up for you. I do know how you feel as I have been seriously depressed recently, I do try to think, tomorrow is another day, and fingers crossed it will be a better one.

take good care.

Hi All
Wish I could do something to give yhou all a lift. I hope things get a bit better soon. If you were all in the UK. I would think it is time of year, where a lot of people suffer from seasona;e disorder syndrome
Lucydog. I hope your mood lifts soon, you are usual so up beat and helpful to other people,
Better put Winstons saying in large letters for you
Cate

[Somebody]

Sorry you missed your date.
I hope you have one real soon.
I'm sure she understands.

[4Wheels]

They have classes on hancuffing your partner to a bedpost and shoving a Dildo up their Ass?

What a great way to meet new friends....
Just kidding Too!

Sounds like Fun.......

Jim

[wheeliebear75]

hi rkzenrage

I'm sorry you missed out on your date. I've been there too. I've had to take to the art of planning ahead............if there is something special coming up I know I may have to take things easy for a day or two prior to that event. It sucks rocks but I'm sure I'd have missed a lot more if I hadn't.

Well best of luck rk.

Luckily you guys are already into SM.........she's kinda already into pain. Hope next time works out for you; that way the only pain is the kind you wanted.

[rkzenrage]

4Wheels, on Nov 4 2007, 08:05 PM, said:

They have classes on hancuffing your partner to a bedpost and shoving a Dildo up their Ass?

What a great way to meet new friends....
Just kidding Too!

Sounds like Fun.......

Jim

It was a class on ropes alone, very advanced, but light B&D, no S&M.
Not our regular thing, plus it was more to meet her old HS friends. We do like it sometimes though, not to misrepresent. Good fun.

Lucy, sending much love to you and your sister.

Edited by rkzenrage, 05 November 2007 - 04:46 PM.

[smokymtn memories]

Hope you're feeling better Rkz, and can replan your outing.

[rkzenrage]

Feeling better today... had some "us time" earlier.

[kewlcatkez]

I hope that you are feeling better than you did when you wrote this message, both in terms of pain and low mood. I, like many here, have chronic pain ( nerve, dislocation pain and other) and do I do empathise with you. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone.

As for the missed date. I hope that your friends understood. I realize that its probably more the fact that disability stopped you for going than wondering if your friends understood.

Its good to vent, IMO, and helps when the audience have some insight too.

I hope that today is a better day

Take care,

K

[Timmy]

rkzenrage, on Nov 4 2007, 05:40 PM, said:

I am in too much pain to go.
It is a bondage class

Are you for real, your going to a bondage class to get tied up.

I have no idea on your situation but myself one handcuff and someone steeling my wheel and i would be f*@ked.

Bondage "for f*@k sake get a reall life. time to grow up/wake up". You have one excuse unless your dribbling shit everytime you move i think a little extra pain might make you realise (pain hurts, no one who has had REAL pain goes looking or wants more.

[Cheshire]

That sucks. I would be upset for missing something like that as well...but missing out on life in general for pain is VERY frustrating. Since it's a class and it sounds like you or your SO are friends with the instructor, maybe she could let you know when another class will be? It sounds like fun...wish they had something like that up here.

Murphy's law is a (not going to say pain) tricky one to get around...good luck with finding what works to keep your "Murphy's Exit Strategy" loophole open.

[rkzenrage]

Timmy, on Nov 12 2007, 06:23 AM, said:

Bondage "for f*@k sake get a reall life. time to grow up/wake up". You have one excuse unless your dribbling shit everytime you move i think a little extra pain might make you realise (pain hurts, no one who has had REAL pain goes looking or wants more.

Fu$k you you piece of $hit.

Edited by rkzenrage, 12 November 2007 - 09:31 PM.

[nomis]

Hi Timmy
What kind of sheltered backwater are you living in?
People everywhere are different with different interests and views on life.
You've got one chance of life on this planet so live it the way you want to. And let other people live their life the way they want to. It's their only chance, too.
Welcome to this opportunity to grow up and open your mind to the great variety around the world.
Interesting, eh?

[rkzenrage]

Is there an ignore on this site?

[Timmy]

nomis, on Nov 12 2007, 09:22 PM, said:

Hi Timmy
What kind of sheltered backwater are you living in?
People everywhere are different with different interests and views on life.
You've got one chance of life on this planet so live it the way you want to. And let other people live their life the way they want to. It's their only chance, too.
Welcome to this opportunity to grow up and open your mind to the great variety around the world.
Interesting, eh?

Now here is a man who has seen it, been there, done it all twice over. I dont live in any backwater. I live in the real world Pal, I have life experience, my thoughts dont come from what i have read in a book or what i think people like to hear. If pandering makes you feel superior or needed, well thats your choice. I think thats just sad.

My appoligies to any of you that consider bondage as a hobby I never consdered it as a form of outlet. As far as i'm concerened being laid up in bed is equivalant of being bound or tied maybe thats why people refer to being (bed bound).

To be honest I dont give a f*@k what people think of me. Its all good to support people, but lowering morals to tell people what THEY want to hear is bulshit, And its not for me.

[rkzenrage]

What consenting adults do with each other has nothing to do with morals, other than the fact that if it is consenting and safe that makes it moral.

[edlee]

Timmy, old buddy. It's pretty obvious that you don't care what people think of you, from both your tone and your vocabulary. Or lack thereof!

You don't seem to care for bondage, how do you feel about anything other than the missionary position? How about cunnilingus, muscrat love? Could I interest you in a little fellatio?

Surely a man who has "seen it, done it all, and been there" understands that being well read doesn't mean a person hasn't had ( what you would call , real) experiences. That , because one refuses to condemn others for engaging in acts that harm no one, he or she is pandering.

Does berateing others make you feel " superior" ? I, truly, hope so. Tho I doubt if many will feel compelled to your idea of morals from reading your artfully crafted posts, above.

For me, I will more readily set my course toward moral correctness from my own experience and upbringing.

One of the things for which I have little tolerance is intolerance. Hence, this post
ed

[rkzenrage]

edlee, on Nov 14 2007, 04:00 PM, said:

Timmy, old buddy. It's pretty obvious that you don't care what people think of you, from both your tone and your vocabulary. Or lack thereof!

You don't seem to care for bondage, how do you feel about anything other than the missionary position? How about cunnilingus, muscrat love? Could I interest you in a little fellatio?

Surely a man who has "seen it, done it all, and been there" understands that being well read doesn't mean a person hasn't had ( what you would call , real) experiences. That , because one refuses to condemn others for engaging in acts that harm no one, he or she is pandering.

Does berateing others make you feel " superior" ? I, truly, hope so. Tho I doubt if many will feel compelled to your idea of morals from reading your artfully crafted posts, above.

For me, I will more readily set my course toward moral correctness from my own experience and upbringing.

One of the things for which I have little tolerance is intolerance. Hence, this post
ed

Come-on, one sentence it's "been there done that" then later he is talking morals...

[Edtezky]

Hey man missing events is the worse. Again like some people said hear. we gotta plan ahead.

[alyssa]

Timmy, on Nov 12 2007, 06:23 AM, said:

rkzenrage, on Nov 4 2007, 05:40 PM, said:

I am in too much pain to go.
It is a bondage class

Are you for real, your going to a bondage class to get tied up.

I have no idea on your situation but myself one handcuff and someone steeling my wheel and i would be f*@ked.

Bondage "for f*@k sake get a reall life. time to grow up/wake up". You have one excuse unless your dribbling shit everytime you move i think a little extra pain might make you realise (pain hurts, no one who has had REAL pain goes looking or wants more.

who asked what he thought anyways?

[sonico]

Thats made my day hearing about Bondage Classes, sounds like a total riot man!