Deej, on Dec 3 2007, 02:34 PM, said:
I do work in an NHS Trust with the 2 ticks symbol, but yes I did have to fight to get back to work after my accident, enlisting help from my professional union and also my local councillor at the time (this was all 13 years ago now). I had to accept a drop from full-time to part time hours, though I am now happy about that decision. Having said all that since being back at work I have not felt discriminated against in any way, I get the same chances at promotion, further study etc as everybody else, and in fact have been promoted 6 years ago.
Hi,
I am glad that you were successful with your fight for your rights! I honestly feel that if it was at a different time, I would have been accommodated as they put it, a lot more readily and without as much hassle as I had.
Initially, due to my worsening connective tissue disorder, I began using crutches as my hip was dislocating all the time. This was pre paralysis, but I obviously had visible 'issues'. To be honest some staff who I wrked with were lovely, and I even managed to keep hold of my job when others lost theirs. We had to apply for our own positions long before the Media documented ones. I also obtained a promotion or two and was at the top of my Grade.
However, even then I had problems with how I was treated. The RCN were not a lot of use to be honest , but I managed to sort most of the issues out with my Manager and HR. They didn't want me to use crutches, etc and worried how I would be able to manage "manual handling' on the wards. At the time we were so over stretched that our Support workers did the Patient turns etc, because I worked on a Specialist unit and my time was taken up giving Iv's, admitting people, ECGS, etc.
I just got that sorted when things went pear shaped and I became one of the Paralyzed club...After I had some rehab and got to the stage where I felt I was ready to go back, They were not very happy with the chair. Granted, I have a complicated situation as I dislocate a lot, every joint pretty much these days ( it has worsened due to hormones, repeated injury - vicious circle, and pregnancies etc), However, once we went through the fact that I had been working with EDS for years ( unbeknownst to us) and what I would do if I had a bad one, they were very unhappy about the chair. Even though I had many people on my side from Unions to someone who fulfills a similar role in the USA and a dr who uses a chair at a different Trust, it still didn't help.
After they were aware that I could use braces and crutches for very short distances they demanded me to work that way. unfortunately they don't understand that very short means just that, and that I am not able to keep that up all day! or even all 5 minutes lol.
In the end, after a lil while, I did go back to work in a slightly modified capacity. I was still in a clinical setting, still doing the same things.
Unfortunately, it didn't work out. Management and HR made it as difficult s possible really. Some who I worked with who I was close to were fabulous, but others weren't so. Those who I looked after - the patients, well I got a lot of positive comments and compliments and many felt I could relate to them more?? I was only aware 2 negative comments from clients. One was a lady who found fault with all the staff no matter what and the other was a gent who thought that I should be living in a home as I was disabled! He later said that he had been enlightened...
To be honest, after a while I got to the point where I dreaded going to work and then I was a wreck for a few days afterwards. This was more b/c of my dislocations and associated fatigue and b/c I was pushing myself so hard and so far, to prove something. The management were visibly relieved when things didn't work out and when I asked them about it ( it was very obvious) they said they were afraid of what people would think, a Nurse who looks like a patient...They were quick to add that people with "disabilities which are less serious, people who "don't look so disabled" would be easier to "accommodate".
There is so much that I could say, but I will leave it there...
I didn't have excessive time off other than when I was in hospital/rehab and prior to that for my Maternity leave etc. I did notice a complete change in attitude with those I worked with. I worked part time.
K
ps, sorry to go on a bit..its all pretty raw still since it isn't very long ago. I must say that m y immediate manager was in tears when I left and I had others who I had worked with who appeared to think the same. They said that I am/was a good Nurse and that it was very sad to lose me and the experience I had. Its all platitudes I guess, but there was a time when I had awards and multiple promotions. I undertook and excelled in a professional course whilst a crip too... I still have many thank you letters from family and clients spanning quite a few years...so I know that I was a great nurse...not that any of it means anything now!
This post has been edited by kewlcatkez: 03 December 2007 - 03:20 PM