Hi Everyone,
Just got back from visiting my Dad at Stoke Mandeville. I am soooo happy that he is there! They are really helping him to feel more like himself.
He got given his timetable today and he is really pleased to see all the cool stuff he will be doing to help train his balance and upper body strength.
He has seen a consultant and they have agreed that it is a Spinal Infarction and that he his injury level T10. They have said that he is not going to get any more than the toe wiggling that he already has but that means that he will be home quicker. As much as I would have loved for them to say "Yes he'll walk again" I knew that was unlikely, and I just really want him home as soon as possible so that he can be with my mum and all the rest of us.
He is also whipping about in his temporary wheel chair, he is so happy to be able to move himself rather than just being plonked from chair to bed and bed to chair.
Anyways it was a long drive to see him so I better go sleep soon,
Take care everyone and thanks for the messages.
Caz.x
Dave Bishopstone, on Sep 11 2008, 08:54 PM, said:
cate, on Sep 11 2008, 12:00 AM, said:
Please keep us informed, and you rant away, the only way things will be altered is people rant and rave enough. I can believe it, sounds like a carry on film, but no joke to you. When my daugher was eventualydiagnosed , Stanmore were so good with regard to a spinal injuries, and they had her in hospital within a few days, but the accident had happened years before, and her spinal cord is completely flatten in neck no hope of regenarating, but she is on crutches, and she got on really well there, but it is amazing how things happen. when the consultant decided she could come home, for me to look after her, neck had rods in she was on crutches, he said take her home, now. amazing I was also on crutches as I had just had hip replacements. Oh well you will be able to manage. What !! fortunately friends had taken me as it was a 70 mile journey home slowly as you can imagine difficult for her to sit in a car, and try not feel the bumps etc. however she did make a good recovery on that. but they did not do so good with knees, operated 3 times, on that, she eventualy changed hospital and consultant, and that is now as good as it will get.
What I wondered, do these doctors live in a bubble and have no concept how an injured person will be able to manage. They all need to have a good back up system in the family, who will help and fight for rights.
There you are another rant, Our NHS used to be good, but I think is top heavy with admin, and outside contract cleaning. o could go on, but my humour is disappearing.
Cate
Hi Cate,
You say "our NHS used to be good". Well I think it still is, my son had his accident on holiday in the USA, whilst the treatment was good - so long as the insurers paid - I have to say we were very glad to be back in the UK and the treatment he had in the Salisbury Spinal Centre was excellent - OK the NHS isn't perfect, but reading accounts of treatment folk receive elsewhere in the world, including the USA - it's pretty damn good.
Oh and by the way in answer to the fact that the NHS is Pretty damn good, my dad had is first shower in 5 weeks when he arrived at Stoke, up until then he had been given a bowl of water and told to do as much as he could reach! I truely believe that the main problem is a lack of staff and the fact that the cuts are running caring people in the ground, but quite frankly there is no excuse for some of the treatment that my dad has had to suffer since this all started. The NHS is a lottery - some, like many of the specialist centres such as spinal units, can be great, but some is down right abysmal!