Hi Kat . . .
My husband is C5,6,7 incomplete. He and I wanted to build a custom home when we thought about moving to Arizona, but in looking at the costs of land and uprooting and replanting cactus (it's the law here), we decided to look at track homes. The very last one we saw had a layout almost exactly as we would have wanted for our custom home. The builder of our home is D.R. Horton and we talked to some of their people about how much experience they've had in modifying homes for someone in a wheelchair before we decided to take the plunge. Fortunately, we didn't have to do many things to our home. It's 1 story, about 3,000 sq. ft. and nice open floorplan. We asked for no gaps in the concrete except for the controlled expansion joints, all low-boy thresholds, all tall-boy commodes and all interior doors to be 2'8" except for the rooms with double doors. We did have issues with our master bathroom and we had to live on the guest room side for the first 8 months while these idiots tore up our bathroom. Apparently the builder didn't have experience in installing a built-in fold down shower bench, at least not safely. Also, we asked to not have a cabinet under my husband's sink and they took the cheap route and made the entire counter the height of my sink so hubby couldn't get his legs underneath. It was nice building a new home so we could tell the wiring company where to place all the outlets; phone, cable & internet plugs. I think installing automatic doors is a great idea. Does your builder have experience in building homes for people in wheelchairs? Here is a link to a site I saw a while back that might help you to decide what you want to get.
Technology My husband and I talk often about what we plan to do and not do in our next home and for sure we plan to get a lot more things automated. My husband is pretty independent, but he gets so upset if he scratches the door with his wheelchair or if there is a box in his way where he can't reach the cord to lift the blinds. We also have huge windows with plantation shutters and he can't reach the top shutters to open or close them and it would be nice to have them automated.
Just curious though, are you building a 2 story home? I notice you wrote about a lift. We had a lift at our home in the town which we used to live. It was outside and installed by the State so my husband could get up to the front door. What a pain that thing was. It was loud and being in the midwest, we had to deal with very cold sometimes icy weather that would freeze the lift and left my hubby in a bind. Also storms often knocked out our power and of course the lift would not work. There usually is a manual way of using such devices in case of power failure, but the one time I decided to use the crank, it took me 20 minutes to get my husband up the lift. So when you check into automated items, be sure to ask about a backup system for power failure. Something else to consider too is how long will the motor last in whatever equipment you decide to buy. We have spent quite a bit of money on motors going out b/c of using it too much or too little. Congratulations and good luck with the building of your new home and hope you find everything needed to make life easier. Take care. Hapa